Overwhelming....Exhaustion...

I had a realization tonight as I was looking over my day planner, I have too many responsibilities and there really isn't a second of the day in the coming weeks for me to breathe. I'm sure things will maybe calm down a little after this month, but it kind of sucks that I thought I was going to have a really good March when in actuality it's probably going to be horrible. I have work everyday which takes up most of my day, and I follow that up with dance class or some other kind of exercise followed by coming home and taking care of my dogs and maybe sneaking in dinner if it isn't too late, added to that might be little tasks I have to do for work like returning night phone calls, answering emails and things like that. Now, that is just a regular day in my life. Now this month I have to add in surgeries for both my dogs which means vet visits to drop them off, pick them up the next day....on two separate occasions. It's highly stressful for me because my vet office is a madhouse, the wait is long...Nala gets anxious, it's just stressful all around for me and her. This will be the first time she has to stay over night and the first time she'll be away from Rain so I'm anticipating not getting much sleep for awhile. I probably shouldn't really worry about this yet, but it's coming up soon and I need to make preparations. 


My anxiety is flaring up big time, and everyone around me seems to think that I can handle it, but I'm doubting myself. It seems like too much and the pressure is enormous right now. The only thing my parents keep saying is "all of this will make you better able to handle anything. it's all going to prepare you for your future and the busy life that a family brings". I guess I can kind of understand where they are coming from, but I know that this family I'm preparing for will have a partner who will be eager to help me, a partner that will share some of the responsibility and pressure, so it's kind of hard to shoulder it all on my own right now. I guess it's a real lesson in independence. I've always been an independent person when it comes to doing things in my own time, but i'm learning that the older I get the less I'm afforded with the option of doing what I WANT to do. It turns more into doing what I HAVE to do in order for things to turn out the way they are meant to. I just need to keep reminding myself to do one thing at a time and take it one day at a time otherwise, I'm going to drive myself crazy.....if I'm not already there.....


Until next time~
Sierra